spend a little extra time putting your active monkey down, and see if it pays off.
When Julian first started standing in his crib, I was at a loss for how to get him to nap. After listening very carefully to Ryan’s procedure for putting him down, I realized I was trying to do it too fast. We got back on track with the extended ritual.
When our naptime routine was at it’s height of effectiveness, which you need to realize, dear rookie moms, can change at anytime, I recorded the procedure, in a lot more or less 10 steps:
Put on white noise
Put on sleep sack
Give pacifier and lovey to hold
Sit on bed with Julian in lap
Read 2-3 books
Stand up and sway while singing Frere Jacques in English and French and then Yellow Submarine
During the chorus of Yellow Sub, put in crib.
If he stands up, sit on bed and sing for one a lot more minute and then kiss and walk out
If he stays laying down, stand and sing for one a lot more minute